GidiWriter

In every relationship there's bound to be a few nights where someone just isn't in the mood, but who's keeping score? One man apparently was, and he took sex tracking to new heights when he emailed his wife a spreadsheet detailing when and why she turned him down for sex over a seven-week period. Incensed at his offensive use of Excel (who wouldn't be?)   Some of the reasons for rejection may have seemed silly (like being tired from driving in Lagos traffic for hours or just feeling gross), but they're definitely relatable (for men and women). And regardless, it's disrespectful to shame your partner for not wanting sex at a certain time. Obviously, this guy's approach is not the best way to address the lack of sex in a relationship. That said, it's a very real problem for many couples and it can definitely be hard to talk about. But instead of resorting to offensive charts, here are four better ways to bring up this touchy subject and get your se...